34 “Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 For I have come to turn a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law— 36 a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.
37He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
We leave families for the sake of the kingdom (Luke 18:29). We enter the kingdom through tribulations (Acts 14:22).
Families and Friends will reunite again once they each decide to increase consciousness and reach Heaven (5th Dimension Christ Consciousness)!
One of the initiations (trials) when moving into higher consciousness is to allow others in the family unit to continue in their own path and conscious levels (natural vs spiritual) in their same way until they are ready to go through the process themselves or at their proper individual times. At some point, this will break the family up in some way allowing the disciple further growth by being able to go out into the “wilderness” to continue on alone. While in the “wilderness”, a person’s true faith will be determined
(35 I the Lord have said, I will surely do it unto all this evil congregation that are gathered together against me: in this wilderness they shall be consumed, and therethey shall die.)
to see whether a person will turn back on their faith and return into previous consciousness or whether they will proceed out of bondage and into higher consciousness. This creates many different trials for all of the members of the family to work through. This is a tough experience and one of the hardest initiations to accomplish. One of my spiritual questions had been – what happened to the original disciples’ families when they left to follow Christ? The only way to answer this truthfully is by having the experience yourself and living through it (a heart-based experience). In my case, I was allowed to work in another city for a year while traveling back home on weekends to help with the transition of complete separation that was meant to happen later, although at the time I wasn’t conscious enough to “see” it (I was blind at the time still waiting for Christ to restore my sight after working through passed initiations with higher awareness). A person is led through the way by God’s grace once you allow and start trusting the process.
and that he said, ‘That’s why a man will leave his father and mother and will remain united with his wife, and the two will be one’? Matthew 19:5
(They will become one in united consciousness. The lower of the two consciousnesses will prevail for the marriage to remain peaceful. If one of the members gets too far away from the other’s resonance, it will start causing problems and a change somewhere has to happen. Usually one will decrease their consciousness in order to keep the marriage intact with both people remaining within lower consciousness.)
The disciples said to Him, “If the relationship of the man with his wife is like this, it is
better not to marry.” Matthew 19:10
This seems to be misunderstood in commentaries because I can attest that this seems to be the hardest part in the transformation. I will always be very grateful to have had such a great family experience with my wife and children. I now have a different post marriage experience that has replaced that and moved me into the following stage of duality to experience life from a different perspective. I am also very fortunate that my ex-wife found it in her heart to allow my growth to occur in a very kind way even though I surprised her with it.
So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.
I have no doubt we were meant to experience those 15 years of our lives together. She was able to move forward with her life while keeping our differences out of court which shows great character in her. Anyone of you having a matter against the other, dare he go to law before the unrighteous, and not before the saints? 1 Corinthians 6:1
(In complete surrender, a person with faith, will accept the outcome that manifests itself from the experience through prayer.)
That part was definitely a trying period for me in moving forward, because I was just as attached to my family at the time as anyone in the world or maybe even more so. A person in Christ allows the family to separate due to the differences between the natural and spiritual members’ conscious levels and allowing for individual free will to take place. Unless ready, most are happy living life as they’ve known it up to that point and are not ready for change. Because of duality, the disciple will need to experience the opposite of the current life lived for further growth to occur and the clearing of lower consciousness with higher awareness and consciousness. This period will break up the family during the surrendering process or cause extreme stress within the family unit. I personally feel that this is when most Christians turn back thinking that they are doing the right thing by doing whatever it takes to keep their life intact. This also keeps their current consciousness the same or very similar without allowing any further growth. Marriage is a lower consciousness experience and will stay intact until one of the partners decides to grow into higher consciousness or is aware of Christ “knocking on the door” for their opportunity to move forward.
“A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies (1st death – natural state death), she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but “he” must belong to the Lord” (left marriage to pursue higher consciousness teachings whether husband or wife). 1 Corinthians 7:39
” And oppress not the widow (a woman who has lost her spouse by death (1st death – natural state death) and has not remarried) nor the fatherless, the stranger, nor the poor; and let none of you imagine evil against his brother in your heart.” Zechariah 7: 10
3 “Honor widows who are truly widows” (women that have become divorced by those following Jesus into higher consciousness (“Till death do us part”) and seeing who will further help them since the separation was not because of lower consciousness sin) -Acts 6:1- In those days when the number of disciples was increasing, the Hellenistic Jews among them complained against the Hebraic Jews because their widows were being overlooked in the daily distribution of food.).
For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 1 Corinthians 7:14
“Now to the unmarried (divorced because of pursuit into higher consciousness and also those that have never married) and to widows (lost by either natural state death or physical death), I say: it is a good thing for them to remain as they are, as I do” 1 Corinthians 7
“But in the age to come, those worthy of being raised from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage.” Luke 20:35
In higher consciousness, a person will then be working on increasing their specific light into “spirit” type of experiences instead of the 3rd dimensional experiences as was done before being raised. This will always be a one on one experience that must be done on an individual basis. This will allow others to enter into this particular time with you for this common help to occur. Once that experience has been accomplished, a person then moves into others with individuals in tune with that next adventure. There will then always be a moving around of individuals around the experiences sought after. Therefore, a person in higher consciousness will always allow people to come and go as needed when moving forward in their life and experiences.
Excerpt from Christ Consciousness